TRUE LOVE

“LOVE” a very sweet little 4 letter word which can make a lot of difference to any person in this world. The definition for love varies from one person to another and hence there is no actual perfect general definition on Love. Love as I say can be defined as a feeling in which one feels happy. In current generation Love is always assumed to be either from a GirlFrend or BoyFrend which is not always true. A general frenship can generate love but lets not get into these details now. So let me talk about the current generation itself. Love is categorized into 3 types – Attraction, One-way and True love.

Attraction – This is just another form of love. Attraction can be defined as an illusion of love. Some people are instantly attracted toward opposite sex. This is similar to what they call as “love at first sight”. I personally believe that there is no such thing as “love at first sight” simply because you cannot experience love by watching others. Hence I classify love at first sight is just an attraction. Some people claim that they had love at first sight and hence they got married etc etc, but I believe they got attracted at first sight and love gradually developed. I have seen a person who claims to be in love with different girls on a monthly basis. The best part is when every girl disappoints him, he finds another one immediately to share his grievances. There is a saying “History repeats” and this situation is like “His-story keeps repeating”.

One-Way – As the name suggests, this is only a one-way love. But again, for a love to blossom, it should be from both the people falling in love with each other. Yet again, one-way love deals with failure being the end result in most cases. There are cases where one-way love has given happiness to both people (one unaware of the other person loving him\her) but let us not get into these details anyway. So One-way love is just an elongated version of Attraction. Attraction is the common action which happens before turning into a One-way love in most of the scenarios. In One-way love, one who loves is usually the person who ends up spending more for the other person. The other person gets benefited by such a generous donor and would not hesitate to take advantage of it. Although you can argue that when a person is in love, spending should not matter, but then I would say, “Hello, THIS IS A ONE-WAY LOVE…..!!!!, Spending surely matters. Don’t you wanna save it for your TRUE LOVE???”. Anyways not much to talk on one sided affairs, so lets move on to main topic….

True Love - Aaah.. here it comes. The one thing which most people want to have in their life. In this form of love both people fall in love with each other and usually it ends up in a marriage. Well thats how Love marriages come into picture. There are constant debates on which is better, the love marriage or arranged marriage, but then both have their own advantage and disadvantages. But in both cases, you would have gone through a phase of true love. So essentially what it means is, true love involves compromises, but then the compromises are well worth for your true love. There are some lucky ones who don’t have to go through compromises, but then it’s a very rare case. Anyways, now I don’t have much to talk on this and hence I would conclude by giving a major difference in love marriage and arranged marriage - you don’t have say “I LOVE U” in arranged marriages. It is just implied…..